Caught tangled in the vein-Cameron Remmer Update 4-19-12

This post was written by Valerie on April 19, 2012
Posted Under: Grandma Quotes

Caught tangled in the vein – Cameron William Remmer missing now 7 months since October 6th, 2011 he left the Fairmont Hotel in San Francisco not even taking the time to take his personal belongings.

Cameron Remmer Missing Now 7 months

This is still an active case with the San Francisco Missing Persons department and we talked to them today, April 19 and wanted to pass on the latest info about their search for Cameron.

Inspector Joseph Carroll spoke to my husband today and told him that despite a heavy work load he will be doing some additional investigation including talking to the Fairmont Hotel employees to see if anyone may  have gone with Cameron or connected with him that night prior to his leaving the hotel.

We have had so many wonderful people out there even now looking for Cameron and have had a few people we really thought was Cameron including my article on “The Man with the Red Pants”. However we have not found Cam. The wear on our family is telling and hard to take but we continue to move forward thanks to prayers and concerned friends of Cam’s and even strangers that have reached out to help us.

Now the hardest thing to hear is that the Inspector will be arranging for DNA collection from myself and his father and brother. Inspector Carroll knew how hard this would be to hear for us but assures us he is doing this to help rule out any future “Cameron” sightings. Because homeless people that are bi-polar like Cameron or are mentally ill don’t even know who they are. We continue to think that someone or a cult or??? who knows has him and that is why he can’t call us which is something he would not do…not communicate with his family and friends. The DNA testing is the part I feel and my words beginning this update-caught tangled in the vein. My son, my youngest son, my intelligent charismatic son that always called me and took me to concerts and hung out with me–I miss him so much.

For myself some mornings I don’t want to get out of bed. At night I don’t want to go to bed. Those are the hardest parts of my day. Some of us have had dreams about Cameron including myself so waking up is hard when I have to realize it was just a dream and that Cameron is missing. We have no idea if he can’t remember who he is or if someone hurt him or is holding him (cult?) not sure. We just want him home. My grandchildren aske me where is Uncle Cam and now I say he is on a “walk about”.

Please help us find our son, brother, uncle and friend. Please keep looking. If you have any information please use the contact info on the flier above and if you can print this flier and place it in as many places as you can. Thank you.


Reader Comments

Thinking of you – and Cameron. Every time I post an update or share your blog, I hear from a bunch of people who never met him but are touched by his story and looking for him. Lots of love.

Written By Heather on April 20th, 2012 @ 12:06 am

Your email made me cry in a happy way…and yes sad too. Thank you so much for your support from Cam’s family and friends.

Written By Valerie on April 20th, 2012 @ 7:43 pm

It is impossible to imagine how difficult this is for you, Bill, Chris, and the rest of the family. We will continue to pray for his safe return and to keep this in God’s hands.

Written By steve abruzzo on April 21st, 2012 @ 5:10 am

I am keeping you and all your family in my heart and prayers. I have been friends with Cameron since Jr. High and it just breaks my heart that he’s missing. Please know even when you feel alone, we are all here for you and supporting you.

Written By Kalyn on April 21st, 2012 @ 5:18 am

I miss my Buddy-

Written By garland on April 22nd, 2012 @ 11:43 pm

I dreamed about you last night, you told me that you just left for 2 weeks and I told you, not Cam you left for 7 months, weird dream but you are still on my mind like always. This is the month Cam come home please!

Written By Over the raimbow on April 25th, 2012 @ 10:26 pm

I sure hope so. Thank you. hugs.

Written By Valerie on April 26th, 2012 @ 5:19 pm

Valerie… I can’t say I know how you feel because I don’t!!!!
I have had pain in my life but nothing like this… My heart is aching for you and your family. Wish there was something more I could do. I can tell you that I will never stop praying for Cameron and his safety… He’s been a great friend to me and I miss him very much. I’ve also dreamt about him. I ran into him downtown and he was totally happy and acted like all was good and i remember i was so mad at him for not calling… Maybe from my last text on 10/6/11. “I’m all good, I’m doing me” I don’t know but I hope he gets over his walk about and comes home soon….much love to you!

Written By Janine on May 2nd, 2012 @ 5:58 am

Thank you for your email Janine. It is hard on his friends like you too and I know that. Not even sure if he is still on this planet but I pray with all my heart that he is and will come back and we can all get mad at him after we hug the heck out of him. Love to you too.

Written By Valerie on May 2nd, 2012 @ 5:21 pm

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